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How to touch her clitoris properly?

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Talking about sexual pleasure can be a sensitive topic, but it is important to have open and honest conversations about sex to improve intimacy and pleasure in a relationship. The clitoris is an important part of female anatomy that can provide immense pleasure when stimulated correctly.

Here, we will explore the best ways to touch her clitoris properly to enhance pleasure and make sexual experiences more enjoyable for both partners.

What is the Clitoris?

The clitoris is a small, sensitive, erectile organ located at the front of the vulva in female genitalia. It contains thousands of nerve endings and is considered to be the primary source of female sexual pleasure. The size and shape of the clitoris can vary from person to person, and it can become swollen and more sensitive during sexual arousal.

How to touch a girl’s clitoris properly

When it comes to touching a girl’s clitoris, there are a variety of techniques and approaches that can be effective. 

  1. Build anticipation: Before touching the clitoris directly, it can be helpful to tease and stimulate the surrounding areas. Massaging/rubbing the clitoris/clitoral area over clothes could also be an option before touching it directly in order to build arousal. This can be particularly helpful for individuals who may not be comfortable with direct stimulation or prefer a slower buildup of arousal. Kissing and touching the inner thighs, for example, can build anticipation and increase arousal.
  2. Start slow and gentle: Begin by touching the clitoris very lightly, using just the tip of your finger. Make sure to not rush up things at all. 
  3. Pay attention to the clitoral hood: The Clitoral hood is a flap of skin that covers the clitoris, and it can provide additional stimulation when touched. Gently rubbing or stroking the hood can be very pleasurable for some women.
  4. Experiment with different strokes: Every woman’s preferences are different, so it’s important to experiment with different types of strokes and pressures. Some women prefer circular motions, while others prefer up-and-down strokes.
  5. Use your mouth: Oral sex can be a highly effective way to touch a girl’s clitoris, as the wetness of the mouth can provide additional lubrication and stimulation. Use your lips and tongue to gently lick and suck on the clitoris, varying your technique to keep things interesting.

Safety tips for touching a girl’s clitoris

  • Taking consent of the girl is essential: First and foremost, it’s important to make sure that both partners are comfortable and consenting to any sexual activity. Communication is key, and it’s essential to establish clear boundaries and respect them.
  • Maintain hygiene before touching clitoris: Before touching a girl’s clitoris, make sure that your hands are clean and your fingernails are trimmed to avoid any potential injury or infection.
  • Using lubrication prevents pain: It’s also important to use plenty of lubrication, as this can help prevent any pain or discomfort. The clitoris does not self-lubricate, so adding lubrication can make the experience more enjoyable for both partners.
  • Be slow and gentle while touching the clitoris: Finally, it’s crucial to take things slow and pay attention to your partner’s reactions.

What happens to a girl when her clitoris is touched?

Properly touching a girl’s clitoris can provide various sensations, both physical and emotional, such:

  • Intense orgasm: For one, it can lead to intense pleasure and orgasm, which can release feel-good hormones like dopamine and oxytocin. This can help reduce stress and promote feelings of relaxation and well-being.
  • Increases intimacy: Touching a girl’s clitoris can also increase intimacy and connection between partners, as it requires trust and communication.
  • Deeper sense of emotions: When both partners are comfortable and consenting to the experience, it can create a deeper sense of emotional and physical closeness.


Touching a girl’s clitoris can be a highly pleasurable and intimate experience, but it’s important to approach it with care and consideration. Always prioritize safety, communication, and consent, and experiment with different techniques to find what works best for you and your partner.


About the Author

Dr. Neha Mehta

Dr. Neha Mehta is an RCI registered Psychologist, certified Relationship Counselor, and a well-known Child Psychologist with 10 years of experience.

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