Edging: The Ultimate Guide to Taking Your Orgasms to the Next Level

Hello, there reader! We meet again.

Today I’m calling out those who enjoy spicing things up in the bedroom or wish to explore different and new ways to experience pleasure. Yes, there are a zillion ways in which you can sexually explore yourself and there is nothing wrong in wanting to know your body as well as your likes and dislikes.

Having said that, today I am going to decode a trick that can just work so well for you that it makes you feel at the top of the world. Haha! Before much ado, the technique I am talking about is – edging. Trust me, it might just be what you need.

Did you just read that and think to yourself – Alright doc but what exactly is edging? Edging, a.k.a “orgasm control,” is a sexual technique that involves delaying orgasm to build up sexual tension and increase the intensity of the eventual climax. This is typically achieved by bringing yourself or your partner to the brink of orgasm and then stopping or reducing stimulation just before reaching the point of no return. Sounds interesting right? Keep reading and it could be worth a shot.

But before you jump on the edging train, let’s see, how does it really help your case? Does it have any benefits? Edging can have many benefits for both men and women. For starters, it can increase sexual stamina and help you last longer in bed. Yes, you read that right, it can do that. What’s more is that it can also make your orgasms more intense and pleasurable, as the buildup of sexual tension can result in a more explosive release. Plus, edging can be a great way to explore your body and learn more about what turns you on.

Are you thinking that what’s the point of coming to the point of orgasm and not really having it? In other words, can it cause blue balls?

Well, you are absolutely correct to think that way because a lot of people have this concern. To answer that, let’s get into what are blue balls and why it happens. Blue balls, also known as vasocongestion, occur when blood pools in the testicles during sexual arousal but doesn’t get released during orgasm. This can cause a dull ache or discomfort in the testicles.

While it’s true that edging can increase sexual tension and cause discomfort, it’s unlikely to lead to blue balls if done correctly. What’s the hack? The key is to not go too long without orgasm or to stop stimulation entirely, as this can lead to congestion and discomfort.

So for all you beginners out there who wish to know what’s the right way to go about edging. Well, here are some tips

1. Set the mood: Create a relaxing and sensual environment that will help you focus on your body and the sensations you’re feeling.

2. Get aroused: Use whatever methods work best for you to get aroused and build sexual tension.

3. Bring yourself to the brink: Once you’re feeling highly aroused, start to stimulate yourself or your partner. When you feel like you’re about to orgasm, slow down or stop stimulation altogether.

4. Repeat: Continue this cycle of stimulation and pause, gradually increasing the length of time you delay orgasm.

5. Let go: Finally, allow yourself or your partner to experience orgasm, either through stimulation or by releasing the built-up tension through other means, such as a prostate massage or kegel exercises.

Bonus Tip: You can choose to incorporate a vibrator or sex toy of your choice into edging. Try using a stroker or masturbtor, vibrating wand, bullet vibes or even cock rings! Use sex toys with your partner or watch each other use them to make things more fun, ensure you stay aroused, and change as well as intensify the way you orgasm.

There you go, that’s how you do it. Before I say bye, I want you to know – while edging can be fun and exciting, it’s important to communicate your needs and desires and to always listen to your body. With a little practice and patience, you can unlock new levels of pleasure and satisfaction that you never thought were possible. So what are you waiting for? Get exploring!

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