How to find the Clitoris?

Unlocking Other Ways To Get An Orgasm, Penetration Is Not The Only Way

Raise your hand if you thought penetration is the only way for a person to orgasm. Well, that is a myth that now stands debunked. Both men and women have multiple other arousal points that should be explored. Why stick to only one way when your body has given you numerous avenues to indulge? 

Today, let’s talk about one of the most nerve-dense spots in a woman’s body. Any guesses? Yes, it is the clitoris. Like mitochondria is the powerhouse of a cell, the clitoris is the powerhouse of female pleasure. Commonly called the ‘pleasure hub’, it is more than just a tiny hotspot, but learning a few simple tricks will open you to an altogether new world...

Let’s get to the basics. Where is the clitoris?

Do you know where your vaginal opening is? Just between the folds of skin around your vaginal and urethral opening, the place you pee from is a small fleshy spot.

To find it, just separate your outer labia – the lips that are covered in hair, and look for where the outer and inner lips that don’t have hair, meet. If you still can’t see the clitoris, push the hood gently upward, which should reveal it. This little pea size organ is the clitoral tip, and the rest of the clitoris is found inside your body.

Some experts even say that it has the shape of an upside-down flower with petals extending inside the body that houses the vaginal canal.  Did you know that the clit serves no other biological function than pleasure? Yup, it is literally the pleasure centre for all those with female biological organs, packed with thousands of nerve endings and is by far the most sensitive part of the vulva.

If pleasure is the only purpose, let’s dive into some tricks to help you have the maximum fun with yourself or your partner. First, if you are a proud clitoris owner reading this; then let me begin by telling you – masturbation is normal and healthy for you! For all beginners out there, start soft and slow. Your pleasure capital takes its time to get aroused, be patient. Further, explore a bunch of tricks and methods. For instance, you can use your hands or fingers to gently rub your clit or get yourself a toy or a vibrator. Love Depot has a range of safe vibrators and toys. You can check them out for some “me time” with your body. 

If you have a female partner, you know the cheat code for her pleasure. But do you want in on the best way to go about it? Always ask her what she likes and try to understand her pleasure points basis what she desires. Don’t jump to penetration. Take it slow by using your hands. To make things more comfortable, use pillow props.  Switch things up by bringing a stimulating toy. Breaking from the monotony of sex and indulging in alternate methods of arousal will be exciting for both of you. 

However, while topics like sex and pleasure often attract a lot of attention, as most of us want to know more about our bodies, wants and desires; it is imperative to seek consent. Irrespective of gender, the safety and consent of your partner should be of paramount importance. While looking for sex toys, condoms or vibrators, never compromise on quality. Always go for trusted and established brands like Love Depot. 

Come on boys and girls, take charge of your sexual health and hygiene.

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